I currently have my son playing club,and I have been wrestling with some things that happend when he plays/dont play. First is the coach says its not about winning but when its the finals in a tournamant my son sits on the bench, I thought you learn by playing right? Second we notice he needs help in some things we let the coach know his answer is " I think he is doing a good job". If Im paying for club I think I should get more for what Im paying for. Any sugetions I would appreciate it, ohh and he is only U11.